I'm looking for someone to have fun with first and foremost and if it becomes more serious, so be it. Communication, honesty, and trust are the basis of every relationship, from sister to significant other. With me, what you see is what you get. I don't pretend to be perfect, but I am very happy with who I am and couldn't be more content with where I'm at in life. I love confidence in a man, one who knows who he is. It also helps if he takes care of but isn't obsessed with himself. I believe in treating others with respect and reciprocity. And finally, I'm a pretty busy girl, but think it is very important to take down time when you can get it. I have to admit that one of my favorite things to do is to take a little nap all snuggled up with someone I care about.